I've been dealing with a variety of urological/pelvic issues for the past few years. The male urologists I've seen seem to be in a hurry, impatient, dismissive, or too quick to recommend surgery. In general, I've long preferred woman MDs, as they tend to be more empathetic and patient and listen better, or so it seems to me.
But when it comes to this intimate specialty, I wonder if I'll be seen as creepy or a pervert if I ask for a woman doctor.
FYI, I did see a woman urologist some years ago, she performed my Urolift procedure. I liked her, but she retired.